I sure hope you are not one of those impetuous types who rush into things without thinking, without introduction, without even so much as a friendly e-mail to say you are there. That's just not reasonable, you should start slowly and see if anything develops.

For many people that slow start is all that happens. For others, they get great information about how to help with fiscal defenestration. There is even great benefit from imagination, where you learn why advance fees are necessary. It is true, nothing is free.

So you see, we should start slowly. Or you can take the alternative path and never start at all. We call that the "comments" and you can go there to be ignored until you are eventually forgotten.